Patriarchy.

I regularly argue from a mens point of view when it comes to equality, but this time - I'm going for equalitarian. This means: I will step out of the little box that is my gender for a second, and have a good look at alle the faults that both men and women have in the upcoming genderwar.

Why genderwar? Because i believe it is unavoidable at this point, unless everyone actually do something to prevent it. But there is ONE gender in particular that need this reminder, a gender that has gone way too far recently. But let me try it out, carefully, and we'll see what happens:

Let me take the viewpoint of an equalitarian for once.

You girls probably wonder why a lot of men take so much offence to the word patriarchy - and I can honestly see both standpoints in this controversity.

When men argue that "There is no patriarchy" this is lies. There is patriarchy, and noone in their right mind could deny this. See? Even the dictionary has a definition:

"A social system in which the father is the head of the family and men have authority over women and children".

Do you agree thus far? Thank you.

Now. I want you to follow me on this one. And do ONLY look on the second part of the definition. ONLY on the part with the men having authority.

What does this essentially mean? The key word here is AUTHORITY - wich means 'the right to control'.

So, basically, patriarchy needs to be fought AS LONG AS THE MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO CONTROL WOMEN AND CHILDREN.

Right? Is this true?

Wrong! We need equal rights, so a man should have excactly the same rights as a woman. The above paragraph suggests otherwise, and is therefore WRONG. If a woman can control her husband, then a man should be able to control the woman too.

Excellent!

Do you still follow me? Good. And I believe you to be reasonable enough to agree with me.

Does man still have the right to control women and children? You bet he does! He has lots of rights in that regard! But ask yourself: What more do you want? Please tell me. What rights do honestly need to be taken away from him now? Wich rights, is it excactly, that a man has, that a woman does'nt have?

This is where we are equal. I see lots of equality here, look up the law - look at every relationship - we DO have the same rights.

But wait, I'm not done yet. Let me address the FIRST part of the definition, wich is:
"A social system in which the father is the head of the family"

IS there still families out there where the father is head of the family? Undoubtly.

BUT: Look around you! Please!

- If all social systems and families are dominated by their father, WHY does the father, in divorce cases, only get the children 1 out of 6 TIMES? That favors the mother.

THE OPPOSITE OF PATRIARCHY.

- If all social systems and families are dominated by their father, WHY is the IKEA catalog the most sold magazine on the face of the earth? That favors the mother.

OPPOSITE OF PATRIARCHY.

- If all social systems and families are dominated by their father, WHY do FATHERS have to work LONGER for their pension than mothers? That favors the mother. AND THAT IS IN THE LAW. IT IS OPPRESSION. WOMEN ARE NOT OPPRESSED BY THE LAW, BUT MEN ARE.

OPPOSITE OF PATRARCHY.

- If all social systems and families are dominated by their father,
WHY do MOTHERS spend 3 TIMES AS MUCH MONEY AS THE FATHER? That favors the mother.

These are only a few facts of SO many. SO MANY FACTS, so feminists. I plea to you. I basically beg you on this one - BE REASONABLE. Look around you! Where is there STILL patriarchy?

- 90% OF ALL FAMILIES IN THE WESTERN SOCIETY IS DOMINATED BY THE WOMAN.

That IS UNDENIABLE. THAT IS THE FACT. Come on, go out. Go out and ask 20 couples. Ask them: who controls their relationship. What will they answer? THE WOMAN DOES.

IF YOU DO NOT STOP FIGHTING MENS RIGHTS TO LIVE, THEN THERE IS NO MAN WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. YOU WILL DIE MISERABLY, AND SO WILL ALL THE OTHER WOMEN THAT FOLLOW IN THIS IDEOLOGY. IS THAT WHAT YOU WOMEN WANT? TO DIE, ALONE, WITHOUT MEN?

IF YOU AGREE WITH ME, THEN DON'T JUST BRUSH IT OFF YOUR SHOULDERS! STAND UP! REAL WOMEN FIGHT FOR INJUSTICE! WOMENS STRENGTHS LIE IN THEIR SENSE OF EMPATHY, SO BY GOD, HELP SOCIETY - OR IT WILL GO TO HELL.

Yup, i believe that was pretty equal. I stepped out of my gender, and i assesed the situation. Wonder how I would view this if I was actually favoring mens rights, over womens?